Men are simple.
See pretty girl, feel desire, make move to pursue.
Masculine men are attracted to Feminine radiance, this usually manifests as her beauty but can also come through in her energy via her mindset, creativity, or submissiveness.
Women are a bit more complex.
Feminine women are attracted to Masculine strength.
This can be displayed in many ways.
Working out = physical strength (destroying your body to build a new one)
Reading = mental strength (breaking through current ideals)
Multi lingual = social strength (breaking through communication/cultural constraints)
Chess = mental strength (breaking through opponents defense with strategies & tactics)
Musician = creative strength (breaking through emotional barriers into a sense of oneness with the music)
It’s less about the specific tasks & more about what those vehicles represent. A man who can be confident in the face of the unknown. A man who can inflict his will upon reality. A man who can make shit happen.
Extrapolate this to your life & see how you can become stronger in areas that are authentic to you. I personally leverage intellectual, emotional, spiritual, & creative strength the most when attracting women because I love the creative mamis who love getting mindfucked by my spiritual philosophy or melt when they hear my poetry or singing.
It’s all about being strong. That’s the whole game.
But why do women desire strength?
Because it allows them to surrender deeper into the power & loving of their own femininity.
Inherently, a Feminine women is going to have less Masculine capacity (frame) to hold her own chaos. Thus a Masculine man’s gift to the Feminine is to be able to create a stronger & unchanged Masculine frame to hold her & allow her to experience the fullness of her current emotions.
This is where the emotional safety comes in.
A women may think you’re hot on the surface, but if you don’t pass her shit tests & display that you have internal strength, she’ll never feel safe with you.
She’ll never feel comfortable surrendering into you because you’ve proven that you can’t handle her.
If your frame can’t handle her, why would she entertain you?
You’re weak.
Women HATE weakness.
The dual foundation for escalation says that unless you’re attractive AND can make her feel safe with you, you’ll never be able to get what you want from her or that experience.
If you’re not attractive (able to display strength) you never get the chance of escalating, but if you can’t make her feel safe than you’ll never surrender into you.
Without a women’s surrender you can’t get to the next level of intimacy with her.
Both sexual attraction & emotional connection are ABSOLUETLY required.
Be strong at shit that you think is cool
Do it in front of women (like on social media) the girls that like what you got will think you’re hot as fuck
Create emotional connection & safety through presence, asking engaging questions, & honoring her whenever she doesn’t feel comfortable
If you’ve been struggling with dating & intersexual dynamics, come hop on a 30 min call with me so I can help you identify your SMCA (sexual market competitive advantage) & give you action steps towards your dating goals.
Do it today. Be better for it tomorrow.
Stay devoted. Stay inspired.
- Jaden
P.S. She wants you to “take it from here” so she can turn her brain off :)
Only real ones get here 🐐 pound it G 👊🏽
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